Elegance Ii Wedding Invitations
The wedding invitations know for their elegance gained huge popularity after their introduction in the private circles of the French and English aristocracies since only the members of the high class society and royalty could afford spending money on such forms of entertainment and had the necessary education to write and read their content.
Not long had passed for people from all social ranks to adopt this custom, especially when education become available for all social classes and money were earned easily if you had the necessary entrepreneur skills.
The expensive wedding invitations were soon replaced with elegance by the invitation cards, simple and white and back in the beginning of the twentieth century if people were still too poor to buy and mail out the wedding invitations they had the cheap alternative to make the wedding announcement in a local or national newspaper.
Usually the necessary information about the wedding is about the wedding ceremony and reception location, the address with some directional signs and/or a printed map, the time and the date; the names of the bride and groom should always be mentioned but for the names of the wedding hosts, that is another story.
The RSVP is an abbreviation written on the wedding invitations or on a separate card if the couple needs an attendance response to make the final arrangement for the wedding; this expression can be replaced with “Regrets only” only if the non-attendance responses are needed. The fact is that whenever you read this RSVP you must reply to it.
In normal situations, the parents of the bride act as the wedding hosts because they have to pay for the wedding; sometimes the couple’s both families or only the groom’s parents can make a financial contribution to the planning of the wedding. Nowadays is it common for the bride and groom to pay for their own wedding and it should be their personal decision whether to mention the name of their parents on the wedding invitations or not.
The themed weddings became quite popular over the last decades so it is often recommended to match this theme with the design of the wedding invitations but for a classic wedding you can always choose some elegant wedding invitations and if the wedding budget allows some extra expenses I suggest having them hand written. The intricate calligraphy can give a classic look to your selected wedding invitations, especially when the design is simple.
The wedding invitations were mainly written by hand but after the invention of cheap methods of printing such as thermography, anyone could afford using the wedding invitations especially since they were mass produced in a large variety of color combination possibilities, sizes, patterns or shapes.
It might be simple to follow the basic formal wording tips or the wording etiquette but you can always use the simple method of being creative with words and expressing the inviting using a personal addressing form or language.
The suggestion would be to mail out the wedding invitations with minimum six weeks in advance, even ten or eight weeks before the actual planned wedding day. Usually the wedding invitations are sent in a double or single envelope even if you have separate cards to announce the wedding ceremony, the wedding reception and the RSVP.
